We got our son a rapier for Christmas. He was thrilled, having been obsessed with swords since he was 3 and we took him to see Peter Pan (2) at the movies. We thought he would have impaled his sister by now, but he holds the thing reverently and only takes it out to gaze at it in awe. Unbeknown to him, this is the first of many swords he will receive. We plan to give him a sword every Christmas until he tells us to stop.

He has quite a collection of toy swords- his grandpa is very indulgent and makes him a new wooden sword every time we visit- but it's not just sword fighting he loves. He spends hours pouring over books about how their made, studying the history and technology of weapons. He draws them, builds them, and dreams up new designs.

I love this about my son- this whole-hearted love of something that excites him and makes his eyes sparkle every time he talks about it. He can tell you the history of each kind of sword- rapiers, cutlasses, sabers etc. He knows how they are designed and for what purpose it serves. He can tell you the technique that the sword fighter would use to fight and how another sword would be used in defense. Like I said, he loves swords (he likes guns and other projectile weapons, too).

Nate the Great

My brother plays the drums, and he posted a video of himself on You Tube playing a little diddy. I thought some of you would be as tickled as me to see it:

n8tr0n playing drums


(By the way, Charlie is fine. The vet said perhaps it was a back problem. not food.)

Charlie thinks he's Super Man

My dog Charlie has a death wish, or perhaps he thinks he is invincible. As of today, he has taken no less than 4 emergency trips to the vet because of something he ate. My husband is at the vet as I write to have his stomach pumped. And, let me tell you, it's not cheap either. I have no idea what that dog finds to eat in the back yard, but it's getting pretty darn expensive to keep this dog alive!!

Our 10th Anniversary

Yesterday, my husband and I celebrated our 10th anniversary. I can honestly say that our marriage is a happy one with mutual love and respect. He is everything I always knew I wanted and everything I didn't even know I needed.

Last night, over a very romantic dinner, we decided that we have such a great marriage because we are both lazy and neither of us wants to lead the other on anything, so there is no animosity or power struggle. We just live in blissful laziness where nothing gets done and no one blames the other.
We both love the idea of adventure, but we are too lazy to go about the task of finding it. We like to try new things, but can't ever make up our minds about what to try when the opportunity arises. So we stick to what we know.

But that's not what I am here to tell you.

What I wanted to tell you is that he gave me a new laptop for my gift (I feel really bad because all I got him is a panini press). The excitement about the laptop is due to the fact that it has Windows Vista. I have never been allowed to have Windows on my computer because of the animosity my husband harbors in his breast towards Microsoft. I believe I have written a post about that very subject a while ago.

He darkly warned me that I will suffer the consequences of Windows and he would be glad to relieve me of such a burden when I felt the time had come. He is poised and realy to sweep my new laptop clean of Microsoft and install the so-very-holy Linux (or whatever open source operating system he chooses). Rest assured I will guard my new computer carefully and will suspiciously question him any time he hovers around it for any length of time.

(My desire for Windows arises from the fact that all homeschool software and educational games for the kids need Windows to run- I have suffered many make-shift solutions that my husband has contrived for my benefit. They never work like he thinks they will.)

The 7 Deadly Mistakes of Homeschooling

Recently, I was at a homeschool support meeting, and the speaker (Lorrie Flem- TEACH Magazine ) was a homeschool mom with 8 children. In her talk, she gave us a list 7 deadly homeschool mistakes, and I wanted to share them with you.
If you want to ensure the failure of your homeschool, do one or more of the following:

1. Do public school at home
2. Make sure you have no vision (make no goals and do not look ahead to the
future)
3.Do not commit yourself to homeschooling
4. Lack support (do not look for it, or join in supporting others)
5. Think that you have already arrived and do not need to aquire any more knowledge.
6. Organize your homeschool around everything else you do in your life (don't make it THE priority of you days).
7. Fail to recognise what homeschooling is. (Homeschooling is sucessful if you make your children a little more like Jesus every day.)

I was "tagged"

My dear friends Terri and Bree tagged me. But, since I only read political blogs, (besides theirs), I will not be tagging 7 others. Somehow, I don't think anyone at Power Line wants to be tagged ;-)

First, the rules:
Link the tagger and these rules on your blog. Share 7 facts about yourself on your blog, some random, some weird.Tag 7 people at the end of your post by leaving their names as well as links to their blogs. Let them know they have been tagged by leaving a message on their blog.

Ok, here is 7 random facts about me that you might not already know.

1. I have not cried in more than 3 years. Not even when I moved away from Virginia Beach. I have a very cold heart, I know... My husband has only seen me cry 2 times in our whole 12 year relationship.

2. Since June, I have read 37 novels by Georgette Heyer, 3 by Jane Austen, and a few other non-fiction books.

3. I have lost and regained 20-30 lbs three times in the last several years.

4. I read the last 2 pages of a book before I read the rest.

5. I dislike scary or suspenseful movies. I also refuse to watch a movie in which animals or children are hurt or abused. (Particularly animals).

6. I have watched all 5 seasons of Alias three times. Yes, I own it.

7. I can't go to sleep unless the sheets are tucked into the foot of the bed and the covers are straight and smooth.

Here are the links to my 2 dear friends blogs: Bree Terri

Homeschooling

We are into our third week of school and I have to say, I am surprised at how well we are getting on! Please don't let that lead you to suspect that I had any dreadful ideas of how things were going to be. I am just happy that we have fallen into such a comfortable schedule and do not have to many pressing obligations.

Here is the worst of it:
The 4th grader has forgotten just about everything I so carefully taught him last year. It seems that there was a leak in his brain that I discovered to late, and I can only be thankful that things are not worse. He still remembers how to read and print letters. The same cannot be said for spelling words, or adding or multiplying sums (to name a few offenses). This discovery came with a bit of frustration but I have been able to recover tolerably well. I immediately launched a full scale assault with a battle strategy that is guaranteed to succeed. Simply put- we don't move on until we have recovered lost data. It so happened that we had not quite finished some of our books from last year- namely math and grammar. So we have spent the past 3 weeks picking up where we left off, but with a slight regression in math. We have now come to the point where we are ready to proceed to the 4th grade level books. Yay!